WHEN IS DIVORCE SCRIPTURAL AND WHEN IS MARRIAGE UNSCRIPTURAL?
Malachi 2:10-16
INTRODUCTION: In the book of Malachi we find God’s people deadened to their own sin. They
had no conviction of their sin which is the lowest state of sin. The sins they were living in
should be familiar to all of us because they are the same sins our society practices everyday:
Malachi 2:11. The nation of Israel profaned the holiness of God by dealing treacherously with
one another. By marrying foreign women they were bringing idolatry into their own houses.
We see this process all the way through the Scriptures: Genesis 6:1-7; Matthew 22:30.
I. ISRAEL’S SIN IN THE PAST IS THE SAME SIN WE ARE DOING TODAY!
Today we see the same thing playing itself out. We see Christian men and women marrying
unsaved mates. Malachi 2:12; Malachi 2:13. The very altar upon which these men’s wives had
wept at is the very altar they were making offerings to God and wondering why God did not
accept them. These men feigned innocence and pretended ignorance and asked why? Malachi
2:14. God tells those men they have broken God’s covenant of marriage in order to marry
pagan wives: Malachi 2:15. God made them one from the very beginning: Genesis 2:18-24.
God is warning His people to watch what they are doing. God has specifically forbidden His
people to intermarry with the unbelievers: Malachi 2:16. Our God hates divorce. From the
very beginning God planned marriage to be between one man and one woman who both knew
God as their Savior to raise children in the love of the Lord: Genesis 2:20. Adam need a mate
fitted just for him: Genesis 2:21; Genesis 2:23; Genesis 2:25.
II. WHY WAS DIVORCE PERMITTED IN THE OLD TESTAMENT?
When sin entered into the world it marred everything including the relationship of
marriage. Deuteronomy 24:1: “uncleanness” in the bride may imply that she was not a virgin
when they got married. Deuteronomy 24:2-4. What did our Lord Jesus say about divorce?
Jesus said Moses had permitted divorce because of the hardness of men’s hearts. Also for
divorce to be allowed it was for fornication before the marriage, unfaithfulness to the marriage
vow on the part of either partner.
III. WHAT DID OUR LORD JESUS SAY ABOUT DIVORCE?
Matthew 19:3-5; Matthew 19:6-8. Jesus said divorce is allowed by God for only one
reason: Matthew 19:9; Matthew 19:10; Matthew 19:11-12. The apostle Paul explained what
should happen in a marriage where one partner gets saved: 1 Corinthians 7:10-11; 1
Corinthians 7:12-15. Even in the case of divorce there is forgiveness offered. A thief can be
saved. A divorced person can be forgiven.
